tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post4587635576195010069..comments2023-02-16T08:56:57.544-06:00Comments on A Cowboy's Wife: Keeping Your Man HappyLori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-68783673149411640702007-09-07T12:42:00.000-05:002007-09-07T12:42:00.000-05:00Puss--Yes, I realize that and I don't believe I sa...Puss--Yes, I realize that and I don't believe I said ALL couples do. I merely stated some things that keep MY man happy and we do work. Thank you for your opinion and taking the time to comment.Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-80562739648526758892007-09-07T12:33:00.000-05:002007-09-07T12:33:00.000-05:00I've been married nearly as long as you and if I f...I've been married nearly as long as you and if I followed your advice, I'd be divorced. Not all couples work the way you think they do.pussrebootshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02167235847991793325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-83330185457380639922007-09-06T10:13:00.000-05:002007-09-06T10:13:00.000-05:00I agree that respect is the focal point. A couple...I agree that respect is the focal point. A couple of years ago, I went on a short trip with two of my best friends from high school. We went to Canton, TX, to this gigantic flea market for which Canton is famous. We stayed at a B&B and that night sat in the hot tub catching up on each other's lives. It was a wonderful trip! When I first shared the plans for the trip with my husband, he thought it was a great idea! And his thoughts are important to me, just as my thoughts are important to him. Yes, my husband is the head of our home and I respect him for that, but he doesn't lord it over me. We have mutual respect, mutual decision making and work as a team.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-41552765280554374492007-08-24T11:32:00.000-05:002007-08-24T11:32:00.000-05:00In response to~~~~Gotta make your husband feel lik...In response to~~~~Gotta make your husband feel like he made the decision to allow you to go see your friend?? Doesn't sound like much of a man to me if that's what you're basing your advice on.<BR/><BR/>You're missing the point. It's more of a respect issue. I would want my husband to ask me if he can go see someone and stay for a couple of days. Maybe I wouldn't want him to. It goes both ways. And I'm not saying it's HIS decision whether I go or not--I'm just saying it makes them feel more like a man if HE THINKS he influenced your decision. <BR/><BR/>It sounds like you are more of a "pant" wearer and not a "dress" wearer...so if my posts make you ill, then don't read them.Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-91262084579553599162007-08-24T11:19:00.000-05:002007-08-24T11:19:00.000-05:00This posting made me ill. Gotta make your husband ...This posting made me ill. Gotta make your husband feel like he made the decision to allow you to go see your friend?? Doesn't sound like much of a man to me if that's what you're basing your advice on.<BR/><BR/>I don't believe in the LORD OF THE CASTLE and the little woman point of view. In fact, none of the women I know do either. And what a shock to find out that we all have happy, stable and long standing marriages. Who'd a thunk??!!? Of course, we all married secure, stable and decent men.<BR/><BR/>DelilahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-23611254580403760962007-08-15T20:10:00.000-05:002007-08-15T20:10:00.000-05:00Laren~~I actually wrote a post similiar to what yo...Laren~~I actually wrote a post similiar to what you are saying. It was Where is a Woman's Place. Anyhoo, I'm so glad you came back by again. <BR/>And thank you for the SUPER NICE comment about me and my man;)Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-54183638515815779092007-08-15T20:04:00.000-05:002007-08-15T20:04:00.000-05:00you called them ol'fashioned, but let's think abou...you called them ol'fashioned, but let's think about our grandparents and previous generations, they didn't do much other than what you suggest and the majority of them were married 90% longer to one spouse than most of us will accomplish by compiling our multiple marriages -- you & rooster are quite an exception & i wish more of us could be like you guys!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-4325549164555782392007-08-09T22:20:00.000-05:002007-08-09T22:20:00.000-05:00Hey LAREN!!! Nice to "see" you!! My so called met...Hey LAREN!!! Nice to "see" you!! My so called methods are a bit ol' fashioned but they work for me! Did you make HIM read Keeping your Woman Happy?...lol.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you stopped by!! Come back and visit!Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-74986010097538326392007-08-09T22:01:00.000-05:002007-08-09T22:01:00.000-05:00I totally agree - now, I'm a newbie in marriage (w...I totally agree - now, I'm a newbie in marriage (well, my second..but this one is real and the other was...for another time!) but it impacts my self-esteem and his to do all those things you mentioned!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-45165765403442951622007-08-09T14:08:00.000-05:002007-08-09T14:08:00.000-05:00It's posted Cman!It's posted Cman!Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-59148904141239021672007-08-08T17:17:00.000-05:002007-08-08T17:17:00.000-05:00okay now I'm waiting for the follow up about what ...okay now I'm waiting for the follow up about what we are supposed to do to keep you happy??<BR/><BR/>later all and have a <A HREF="http://cmansmoneypages.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">profitable productive blogging</A> dayProletariatof1https://www.blogger.com/profile/10751887381665122110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-41973210803426634852007-08-05T15:32:00.000-05:002007-08-05T15:32:00.000-05:00Glad it works for you. It reminds me of that story...Glad it works for you. It reminds me of that story about the women that passed on the book about dog training from generation to generation.CyberCelthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11954268198661577510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-43373079909832392802007-08-02T23:34:00.000-05:002007-08-02T23:34:00.000-05:00Hey C?man~~I figured the guys would agree with it....Hey C?man~~I figured the guys would agree with it..lol. And yes, I know MY husband likes the t-shirt thing;)Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-91549169227688635262007-08-02T21:45:00.000-05:002007-08-02T21:45:00.000-05:00Well your about to be disappointed. I'm not a woma...Well your about to be disappointed. I'm not a woman :(.<BR/><BR/>I pretty much agree with all of them. I certainly do about #5. What can I say...I'm a freak and I like my woman to have bedroom initiative. And it is way sexier if it is my t-shirt, or better yet a button down undone.Proletariatof1https://www.blogger.com/profile/10751887381665122110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-56108612743228560362007-08-02T16:34:00.000-05:002007-08-02T16:34:00.000-05:00Hey Chica~~I know that's for sure. I think I'm ju...Hey Chica~~I know that's for sure. I think I'm just old fashion and women need to be women and men need to be men...lol.<BR/><BR/>I'm surprised I haven't received any other comments from other women;)Lori aka A Cowboy's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02533952376073216738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-964717246154238852.post-16511814901643306922007-08-02T16:23:00.000-05:002007-08-02T16:23:00.000-05:00Good advices but don't forget that all couples are...Good advices but don't forget that all couples are different, and each one of them seem to have their "status-quo" ! ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com